To Please & at Behage

Are you trying to please other people?
Previously I was.
I was constantly saying I was sorry.
I did not have any personal boundaries.
I would do anything to not have conflicts.
I was not very selective about the people I let into my life.
I was always worried that other people did not like me.
I was worried that I was not good enough.
I had a real hard time saying no and preserving my boundaries.
When I finally did, it would get very overwhelming for the involved parties including me because it was so hard for me.
One day I realized that instead of making me likeable and keeping me out of trouble it did the opposite.
It made me disappear behind the pleasing and it got me into trouble.
Today I have learned to be me, to say no and not to please.
Life is good.
Do you recognize any of this behavior and do you not know how to change it?
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Er du en pleaser?
Det var jeg tidligere.
Jeg sagde konstant undskyld.
Mine personlige grænser var nærmest ikke eksisterende.
Jeg ville gøre, hvad som helst, for at undgå konflikter.
Jeg var ikke særlig selektiv med, hvilke mennsker, jeg lukkede ind i mit liv.
Jeg var altid bekymret for at andre ikke kunne lide mig.
Jeg var bekymret for, at jeg ikke var god nok.
Jeg havde virkelig svært ved at sige nej og sætter grænser.
Når jeg endelig gjorde det, blev det ofte overvældende for alle parter inkl. mig selv fordi det var så svært for mig.
En dag indså jeg, at denne adfærd, istedet for at få andre til at kunne lide mig & holde mig ude af konflikter, gjorde det modsatte.
Jeg forsvandt bag denne pleaser adfærd og havde problemer I mit liv.
Idag har jeg lært at være mig, at sige nej og ikke at please.
Mit liv er godt.
Kan du genkende noget af denne adfærd og ved du ikke, hvordan du holder op med den?
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Er du en pleaser?